I used to be incredulous when one of my parents used my brothers’ names to refer to me. Don’t they know their own son’s name!?

I’ve used my dog’s name instead of my daughter’s many times in the first three months of her life.

@cmerrill Yep! It’s a thing. End of the year we’ll have two dogs and two kids. No chance.

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