honestly the fact that it takes so much goddamn work and emotional effort just to get referred for a GRS _consult_, much less the surgery itself, is a form of violence that the medical establishment employs against trans people
@esten also the fact that nearly everyone in the process could gatekeep you if they felt the urge :|
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